Friday, March 1, 2019

How do I know if the hand job is from a slave or not?

My hobbyist friend is cheap when it comes to paying for sex like Robert Kraft.  Except there’s about 6.4 billion dollars separating their net worth. I actually introduced him to his first lady, Martha, an older whore who had a lot of mileage, courage and wisdom.  “First Lady, This is John.” “John, meet first lady. You’re welcome.” and years of mutual benefits ensue from continued transactions which ensue after said introduction. Except John gets tired of the same old lady, just like in their marriages.  This is how you avoid trafficked workers, referral only. But that didn’t work
Modern Day Slavery or Suspended
Submission Hold?
for my friend for long and Kraft is no different from most John’s of that caliber. Massage parlor means reasonable prices and variety. $150 is the most they are willing to pay for their orgasms.  And that’s final. Regardless of if they make billions or not. One of the things that I educate clients of cheaper sex workers is that the risk is higher. This is true for you who are working these clients and for clients venturing to see these workers. Willing to take that risk?  Okay, then. Don’t say no one told you. It can be rough out there. The majority of the risk is big stings like this. They happen all the time and are often used for political career stoking. Because street prostitution and trafficking raids on Asian massage venues are considered low hanging fruit.  You don’t like that title? Then don’t get hookers from the streets, or without screening them yourself first OR getting a worker introduction via a friend, unless you knowingly understand that you can land in jail. This goes for high risk low dollar workers the same as clients. This is a fact. It happened to me.  I was the lowest hanging fruit, shouting and screaming defiantly while walking into a trap.


Rich people can be notorious hardline cheapos, hey, that’s how they got to be rich, right?  Take notes! Doing research and paying a little more for a sex work date that is SAFE (for STDs, consensual, and sane) for what you want can actually guarantee an ETHICAL TRADE SEX WORKER.  How do you know if the sim card in your phone is not made with slave labor?  Are you willing to do the detective work to trace the dollar? The same thing is true of your vegetables, your sneakers, your computer parts everything that the United States benefits to buy in quantity.  There are gradation lines for us ethically between one economy member doing continued unequal market trade to the eventual profit and continued mutual benefit of all AND human trafficking sexual or otherwise.  And then there's Domestic Workplace Abuse. Do we want to redirect our dollars away from WalMarts and Amazons? Or is it just unethical working conditions for sex slaves that deserve your support. There are many elements of abuse and coercion that occur in unmeasured statistics the same way sexual assault, drug and sex abuse intersect undetected. People 'work’ for their partners without ever acknowledging abuse, finding all levels of abuse is like finding those directly affected by relationship violence and getting them to talk about it.  If you want to see what sexual conditioning and trafficking of underage girls looks like turn to R Kelly's case not to the Patriots arrest at a massage parlor. R.Kelly is being convicted with a felony that was designed in the 1900s to protect white girls from being abducted and here its being used by a Black Sexual Predator on Black women. This is the perfect use for white slavery laws, not to arrest consenting clients and immigrant workers


So you ready to start seeing the sex worker that gets you off as a human on a human rights level?


  1. See if she is conversant on a personal level or if she is non conversant, evasive, nervous. SIGNS OF POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER (PTSD) falling asleep while giving a massage or counting money, forgetfulness, repeating of phrases or answers for questions (disassociated or sleep deprived), frequent trips to the bathroom or "bathroom." (This could mean that they have certain problems, but not necessarily that they are trafficked)
  2. See if they have a personal mobile phone number and can you text her when you want to come in aside from calling the spa, test the number, if it is answered by another worker, then she works for an agency and may not neccesarily be in an abusive and coercive trafficking ring. Many new workers prefer to work for agents with drivers and more capital and experience to get them started and are happy to give over a huge fee to have this taken care of for them. All agencys can be charged with pimping even if it is adult sane and consensual.
  3. Do you see bruising or cuts that seem unexplainable or lied about, scars from cutting
  4. You can ask to see if he will show you her ID with the information covered, just to verify that she has access to one and it easily is furnished at no risk to her with ease. Propose to do this BEFORE you take your clothes off. Be willing to walk over non compliance.
  5. Will he do a screening meetup for $100.  This money goes towards your safety and well being, as well as your checking for management systems and amount of autonomy.  Don’t offer coffee in exchange for this meetup. $100.
  6. Can you add them on social media?
  7. Does she have her own website (if she does (not just her own ads, her own site) her rate is likely $300+/hr) but is probably 99.9% not  trafficked.


None of these things alone that I just listed together to help hobbyists who have this question, it is not an exhaustive list and its definitely my opinion only.  But i got 6 years of high risk sex work experience and I been in the slammer once. I’ve been in pretty abusive work situations but nothing I would ever call trafficking or pimping.  I was always in power to walk away from anywhere I worked. Even though I didn’t soon enough sometimes.

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