So What Brings You to Our Country Today?

I've been watching a lot of "Nothing to Declare" on YouTube because I've recently been addicted to the Police Confession/Interrogation RealityTV" genre.  I've watched entire police confessions from high profile killers half out of voyeurism and fascination and also for my own research to understand the games and ways that real interrogations at the border and in questioning rooms work.  It seems that the tactic is to drain your energy until you confess.  Hours and hours of grilling you with the same questions asked different ways and other mind manipulation tactics.  I've been also watching "To Catch a Smuggler" which was a natural succession because it was on the related videos tab where my attention naturally migrated.  I've recently found out that I'm actually an empath, so it is quite hard for us empathic people to hide our feelings, and police and border patrol authorities look for a break in your emotions while they are questioning you.  The interrogation that is recorded at the borders of the U.S, Canada, UK, and New Zealand.  You watch individuals try to lie on camera and get caught one after the other trying to smuggle everything from currency, drugs, meat and live insects.  There have been a few escorts on these shows who come from other countries and in the end, they confess and they are refused admittance from the Canadian episodes that I've seen after officers went through one woman's phone and found her work emails.  I have been detained and refused entry into Canada for bringing a weed pipe in my car thinking that I would save money buying a pipe, so I'd just not bring the weed flowers but bring my pipe.  It is illegal to carry marijuana from state to state of any quantity even if it is legal in the state you are leaving and going to.  It's still consider smuggling of drugs!  "We are arresting you for smuggling or attempting to smuggle xyz."   I had a pipe and after thorough inspection of my entire vehicle they did find a truly forgotten about half gram of kief powder (green powder you sprinkle on your bowl) in between my seats but it wasn't enough to arrest me.  in the mean time they did rifle through my shit including my journal, and kept me on each country's border for 6 hours, as well as perform a body search on me.  And since then, entry into Canada is frightening because I really was just intending to be a tourist that day.  They stop and turn back illegal workers all the time.  They rifle through your bags to see if you have any professional equipment and if you do ask if you have a work permit.  "I'm here to meet a girl from the internet" or "Just here for vacation" is used frequently, but fails when they open the suitcase and you've got construction worker equipment or martial arts gear in your suitcase.  And then they ask if they can speak to your girl or boyfriend to verify your story.  So I'm learning how to make sure to get my ducks in a line if I am going to lie about something through this show.  Don't be caught stuttering and stammering.  I really don't know how they let me into Japan.  I sometimes think Japan is super strict but not so smart.  To get a Japanese visa it asks you to check yes or no to the question "Have you ever been associated with prostitution?" I checked NO of course.  ;)
But they clearly don't google people.  When you google my government name it shows that I am a transsexual prostitute high up on the results.  And some other sex worker art festivals which I can say I was a performer in.  I can bust an R.Kelly and easily say everything on the internet is a lie.  Because I'm definitely not a transsexual.  Whoever wrote that is not hurting me because I can identify as genderqueer even though I'm a cis woman.  I don't mind being called a dude, or being told I am masculine, but because the transsexual prostitute article is high ranked it actually helps me lie about the fact that I'm not a prostitute. :)

Some people just think they can get away with it or pass through undetected without hiding it all just mixed into their luggage, others swallow capsules, body pack it, there are seizures by mail where people have hidden it in a laptop or in false parts of suitcases or briefcases.  This show shows them all and shows them being discovered on camera.  Shows the x-rays where you can see all the capsules in the stomach in the body x-ray!  ALL OF THE GUILTY PEOPLE LIE.  They also show people with false suspiciouns who after thorough inspection turn out to be clean.  It seems pretty realistic to me.  Except, that they are probably making it seem like they catch a lot more people than they actually do.  And then they're caught.  Or these people on camera are caught.  It's effectively got me scared shitless of bringing anything at ALL or working illegally overseas anywhere.  But, I remember that that is the point of these shows.

How do I know if the hand job is from a slave or not?

My hobbyist friend is cheap when it comes to paying for sex like Robert Kraft.  Except there’s about 6.4 billion dollars separating their net worth. I actually introduced him to his first lady, Martha, an older whore who had a lot of mileage, courage and wisdom.  “First Lady, This is John.” “John, meet first lady. You’re welcome.” and years of mutual benefits ensue from continued transactions which ensue after said introduction. Except John gets tired of the same old lady, just like in their marriages.  This is how you avoid trafficked workers, referral only. But that didn’t work

Modern Day Slavery or Suspended
Submission Hold?

for my friend for long and Kraft is no different from most John’s of that caliber. Massage parlor means reasonable prices and variety. $150 is the most they are willing to pay for their orgasms.  And that’s final. Regardless of if they make billions or not. One of the things that I educate clients of cheaper sex workers is that the risk is higher. This is true for you who are working these clients and for clients venturing to see these workers. Willing to take that risk?  Okay, then. Don’t say no one told you. It can be rough out there. The majority of the risk is big stings like this. They happen all the time and are often used for political career stoking. Because street prostitution and trafficking raids on Asian massage venues are considered low hanging fruit.  You don’t like that title? Then don’t get hookers from the streets, or without screening them yourself first OR getting a worker introduction via a friend, unless you knowingly understand that you can land in jail. This goes for high risk low dollar workers the same as clients. This is a fact. It happened to me.  I was the lowest hanging fruit, shouting and screaming defiantly while walking into a trap.

Rich people can be notorious hardline cheapos, hey, that’s how they got to be rich, right?  Take notes! Doing research and paying a little more for a sex work date that is SAFE (for STDs, consensual, and sane) for what you want can actually guarantee an ETHICAL TRADE SEX WORKER.  How do you know if the sim card in your phone is not made with slave labor?  Are you willing to do the detective work to trace the dollar? The same thing is true of your vegetables, your sneakers, your computer parts everything that the United States benefits to buy in quantity.  There are gradation lines for us ethically between one economy member doing continued unequal market trade to the eventual profit and continued mutual benefit of all AND human trafficking sexual or otherwise.  And then there's Domestic Workplace Abuse. Do we want to redirect our dollars away from WalMarts and Amazons? Or is it just unethical working conditions for sex slaves that deserve your support. There are many elements of abuse and coercion that occur in unmeasured statistics the same way sexual assault, drug and sex abuse intersect undetected. People 'work’ for their partners without ever acknowledging abuse, finding all levels of abuse is like finding those directly affected by relationship violence and getting them to talk about it.  If you want to see what sexual conditioning and trafficking of underage girls looks like turn to R Kelly's case not to the Patriots arrest at a massage parlor. R.Kelly is being convicted with a felony that was designed in the 1900s to protect white girls from being abducted and here its being used by a Black Sexual Predator on Black women. This is the perfect use for white slavery laws, not to arrest consenting clients and immigrant workers

So you ready to start seeing the sex worker that gets you off as a human on a human rights level?

1. See if she is conversant on a personal level or if she is non conversant, evasive, nervous. SIGNS OF POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER (PTSD) falling asleep while giving a massage or counting money, forgetfulness, repeating of phrases or answers for questions (disassociated or sleep deprived), frequent trips to the bathroom or "bathroom." (This could mean that they have certain problems, but not necessarily that they are trafficked)
2. See if they have a personal mobile phone number and can you text her when you want to come in aside from calling the spa, test the number, if it is answered by another worker, then she works for an agency and may not neccesarily be in an abusive and coercive trafficking ring. Many new workers prefer to work for agents with drivers and more capital and experience to get them started and are happy to give over a huge fee to have this taken care of for them. All agencys can be charged with pimping even if it is adult sane and consensual.
3. Do you see bruising or cuts that seem unexplainable or lied about, scars from cutting
4. You can ask to see if he will show you her ID with the information covered, just to verify that she has access to one and it easily is furnished at no risk to her with ease. Propose to do this BEFORE you take your clothes off. Be willing to walk over non compliance.
5. Will he do a screening meetup for $100.  This money goes towards your safety and well being, as well as your checking for management systems and amount of autonomy.  Don’t offer coffee in exchange for this meetup. $100.
6. Can you add them on social media?
7. Does she have her own website (if she does (not just her own ads, her own site) her rate is likely $300+/hr) but is probably 99.9% not  trafficked.

None of these things alone that I just listed together to help hobbyists who have this question, it is not an exhaustive list and its definitely my opinion only.  But i got 6 years of high risk sex work experience and I been in the slammer once. I’ve been in pretty abusive work situations but nothing I would ever call trafficking or pimping.  I was always in power to walk away from anywhere I worked. Even though I didn’t soon enough sometimes.